It is written "Let us make man in our own image" Biblically the history of mankind started with man and we respect God's decision, putting man before woman. The Bible said "God created man in His own image" I believe our men should rejoice and celebrate their manhood that man was made the first human on earth. But while counting their blessings, they have a good reason to count their responsibilities as well.
The happiest wife is someone whose husband is a good listener and share joys and sorrows with her. To be able to provide, to protect, to respect, to love and care are some of the beautiful qualities a good woman would expect from a man. It is said that palatial buildings are constructed by manpower but home is built by hearts. Blessed is a home where love overflows at all times.
Today we see many happy families' happiness being blown away by unknown wind. John Green said "love is keeping the promise" Some husbands need to be reminded of the quote that says "the best thing a father can do for his children, is to love their mother". What if tomorrow someone does the same to your daughter and she remembers a quote "the only man a girl can trust is her daddy".
Meantime there are many homes where a father is responsible for the family's well being and happiness. My salute to all the loving, caring, dutiful, faithful and committed fathers. I just can't fathom the respect I have for those responsible gentlemen I know far and near including my own father. May you all be blessed. "My father was a gentleman of many virtues" said Laurence Sterne.
Simon Sim said "My son once reminded me to treat my wife well, saying, 'Be nice to your wife - she's my mother, you know!'”A good father's testimony is best reflected in his character. Simon Sim said "My father first taught me how to be a good husband. Then he taught me how to be a great father. What people see in me now, I saw in my father then".
My father is my hero and I always feel proud to be my father's daughter. If you too are one, let's give them a big hand and give thanks to God. If your father is still alive, you and I are the most fortunate people alive on this planet. If your husband is the reason for your happiness, bless him and express how grateful you are to be his wife. If you are living a successful life and you know it would not have happened without the role of your wife, remember one thing, acknowledging one another is a golden rule. Some women really make their husbands great, respect her if you have one. Some men are born with ungrateful heart and some lips are made to lie. Only real men have the audacity to accept reality and develop the courage to speak the truth.
It is truly enviable and a dream come true for woman to be sharing her life with a responsible husband and the children to be having an honourable father. One life to live, tomorrow shall soon become past. Walk in love while you walk this earth. Always remember you were created in His image hence you are a 'Godly Father' so long as you put on the image of the invisible God. Happy Father's Day.
Vikali Shikhu
Unity Village
Dimapur